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Meet the Wolf Pack: Family Law Attorney Emily Long - Episode 63

The Hastings Shadmehry Show June 14, 2025 5:34 am

In this episodes of The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali talk through the intricacies of a post-divorce parenting plan that covers summer vacation.Parenting Plans are common in divorce, and most of them are geared toward everyday life throughout the school year.  Then when the summer months come around, families can find themselves in needless and avoidable arguments because they don’t have a solid, well-thought-out parenting plan.The partners talk through the problems that can arise and the best way to prevent them.  After they briefly discuss the inevitable fall-out after passing through a full moon in Scorpio, of course.Join the conversation!00:25 Intros00:45 Warrior or Diplomat04:30 The Basics of Post-Divorce Parenting Plans05:30 What is Summer Parenting Time?06:30 Do the Summer Holidays affect parenting time?08:00 A weak Summer Parenting Plan leads to trouble10:00 Family travel can affect the plan12:00 What if the parents live far away?13:15 Some parents can’t have extended parenting time14:00 Providing notice of travel plans18:00 Taking the child out of the jurisdiction20:00 Judges don’t like vacation drama21:20 Summation and Sign-offFollow us on social media and engage with us for more insights and updates!Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryemail us at: podcast@hsfamilylaw.comContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

In this episodes of The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali talk through the intricacies of a post-divorce parenting plan that covers summer vacation.

Parenting Plans are common in divorce, and most of them are geared toward everyday life throughout the school year. Then when the summer months come around, families can find themselves in needless and avoidable arguments because they don’t have a solid, well-thought-out parenting plan.

The partners talk through the problems that can arise and the best way to prevent them. After they briefly discuss the inevitable fall-out after passing through a full moon in Scorpio, of course.

Join the conversation!


00:25 Intros
00:45 Warrior or Diplomat
04:30 The Basics of Post-Divorce Parenting Plans
05:30 What is Summer Parenting Time?
06:30 Do the Summer Holidays affect parenting time?
08:00 A weak Summer Parenting Plan leads to trouble
10:00 Family travel can affect the plan
12:00 What if the parents live far away?
13:15 Some parents can’t have extended parenting time
14:00 Providing notice of travel plans
18:00 Taking the child out of the jurisdiction
20:00 Judges don’t like vacation drama
21:20 Summation and Sign-off


Follow us on social media and engage with us for more insights and updates!
Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.com
Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry

email us at: podcast@hsfamilylaw.com

Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

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Summer Parenting Time - Episode 62

The Hastings Shadmehry Show May 31, 2025 12:45 am

Episode 37 ENCORE: No-Fault Divorce: What It Means & Why It Matters

The Hastings Shadmehry Show May 16, 2025 4:00 am

Meet the Wolf Pack: Family Law Attorney Madison Alexander - Episode 59

The Hastings Shadmehry Show April 18, 2025 4:01 am

DRFA: The First Step In a Divorce -- Episode 58

The Hastings Shadmehry Show April 6, 2025 5:00 pm

Narcissism & Divorce: Understanding the Toxic Patterns Part 3 - Episode 57

The Hastings Shadmehry Show March 21, 2025 7:30 pm

This week, we are presenting an ENCORE of Andee's second conversation on Narcissism and Divorce with Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe, PhD, LPC, because we will be bringing Part Three next week.Narcissism is a commonly heard term and it is something that the lawyers of Hastings Shadmehry deal with on a regular basis.  Join the conversation, as Andee and Dr. Kyrstin continue their discussion of this toxic personality disorder, and how it affects relationships and family law cases.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry on TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#hastingsshadmehryshow #hastingsshadmehry #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #family #highassetdivorce #podcast #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #FAFO00:20 Introductions01:12 Warrior or Diplomat?03:22 Gray Rocking and Yellow Rocking08:48 A professional experience dealing with being gaslit10:20 Natural tendency to get drawn in by a Narcissist12:00 How counseling can help to fend off a Narcissist13:30 Advice for people who develop the need to fight back15:45 Benefits of physical activity17:00 Clients who fear they won't be believed23:00 Recognizing patterns so behavior can be predicted24:50 Are there patterns when the Narcissist wants to leave?26:20 Do Narcissists try to punish their partners?27:05 The so-called Flying Monkeys28:30 Helping people through the process of being discarded30:20 Is the threat of being discarded something that Narcissist uses?32:00 A great therapeutic exercise to practice35:00 Narcissists find ways to isolate their partners36:10 Learning to see the patterns is key38:00 A Divorce case where the Narcissist had to be revealed to the court41:20 What is Parallel Parenting?43:30 The Value of the app Our Family Wizard47:55 Where to find Dr. Kyrstin online and how to contact48:40 Wrap-up

This week, we are presenting an ENCORE of Andee's second conversation on Narcissism and Divorce with Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe, PhD, LPC, because we will be bringing Part Three next week.

Narcissism is a commonly heard term and it is something that the lawyers of Hastings Shadmehry deal with on a regular basis. Join the conversation, as Andee and Dr. Kyrstin continue their discussion of this toxic personality disorder, and how it affects relationships and family law cases.

Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.com
Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry
on TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry
Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

#hastingsshadmehryshow #hastingsshadmehry #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #family #highassetdivorce #podcast #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #FAFO


00:20 Introductions
01:12 Warrior or Diplomat?
03:22 Gray Rocking and Yellow Rocking
08:48 A professional experience dealing with being gaslit
10:20 Natural tendency to get drawn in by a Narcissist
12:00 How counseling can help to fend off a Narcissist
13:30 Advice for people who develop the need to fight back
15:45 Benefits of physical activity
17:00 Clients who fear they won't be believed
23:00 Recognizing patterns so behavior can be predicted
24:50 Are there patterns when the Narcissist wants to leave?
26:20 Do Narcissists try to punish their partners?
27:05 The so-called Flying Monkeys
28:30 Helping people through the process of being discarded
30:20 Is the threat of being discarded something that Narcissist uses?
32:00 A great therapeutic exercise to practice
35:00 Narcissists find ways to isolate their partners
36:10 Learning to see the patterns is key
38:00 A Divorce case where the Narcissist had to be revealed to the court
41:20 What is Parallel Parenting?
43:30 The Value of the app Our Family Wizard
47:55 Where to find Dr. Kyrstin online and how to contact
48:40 Wrap-up

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Episode 48 ENCORE: Narcissism and Divorce Understanding the Toxic Patterns, Part 2

The Hastings Shadmehry Show March 14, 2025 4:00 am