The back-to-school season can bring excitement for children but stress for co-parents. New routines, extracurricular activities, and school communication can all create tension if parents aren’t on the same page. In Georgia custody cases, a well-structured parenting plan is the key to reducing conflict. Here are some practical strategies to help co-parents manage the transition smoothly.
- Review Your Parenting Plan Before School Starts
Most Georgia custody orders include a detailed parenting plan. Review it in advance to confirm:
- Who is responsible for drop-off and pick-up.
- How holidays and teacher workdays are divided.
- Which parent handles transportation to extracurriculars.
Tip: If the plan is outdated or doesn’t fit your child’s school schedule, you may need to seek a modification. Courts in Georgia allow custody modifications when there has been a material change in circumstances affecting the child’s best interest.
- Communicate Clearly (and in Writing)
Even the most detailed parenting plan can’t cover every scenario. Effective communication is crucial:
- Use shared calendars or co-parenting apps to track assignments, events, and custody exchanges.
- Keep communication child-focused and respectful.
- Document important decisions in writing to avoid misunderstandings.
Tools like OurFamilyWizard are often recommended (and sometimes required by courts) to streamline communication.
- Coordinate School Involvement
Schools in Georgia are accustomed to working with co-parents. To avoid confusion:
- Provide the school with copies of your custody order.
- Ensure both parents are listed as emergency contacts.
- Share teacher emails and school updates with each other.
This not only reduces conflict but also reassures your child that both parents are involved and supportive.
- Plan Ahead for Extracurricular Activities
Sports, music lessons, and after-school activities can complicate custody schedules. Discuss in advance:
- Who pays for fees and equipment.
- Who provides transportation.
- Whether participation will affect regular parenting time.
If disputes arise, remember that extracurriculars are generally considered part of the child’s best interests, and Georgia judges may weigh this when considering custody issues.
- Put Your Child First
Above all, remember that children thrive when parents cooperate. Transitioning between households is easier when both parents:
- Support school success without putting the child in the middle.
- Avoid speaking negatively about the other parent in front of the child.
- Stay flexible when unexpected school events or schedule changes occur.
Back-to-school doesn’t have to mean back-to-conflict. With preparation, communication, and cooperation, co-parents can help their children start the school year on the right foot.
If your parenting plan no longer fits your family’s needs, or if you’re struggling to navigate custody conflicts, Hastings Shadmehry Family Law can help. Contact us today to schedule a consultation with one of our experienced family law attorneys.
